About Me

Bounce Back Better Queen

I help my clients break the glass ceiling, and realise their full potential In life, love, and business.

Hitting Rock Bottom and The Magic Of New Beginnings

I was always a go-getter, learning new skills effortlessly and running successful businesses while staying physically fit. However, everything changed when I went from being a confident, adventurous entrepreneur to someone plagued by self-doubt and indecision.

It was my firsthand experience with domestic violence that shattered me. Previously, I had wondered why victims didn't simply leave, but I soon discovered it wasn't that easy. This marked another rock bottom for me, the first being when I was a struggling single mother at 22, questioning the direction of my life.

In the aftermath of domestic violence, I was left shattered, devoid of confidence, and plagued by feelings of inadequacy. However, this painful experience became the driving force behind my greatest triumph. Transforming my struggles into victory filled me with immense joy and fulfillment, and now I have the honor of empowering other women on their own journeys.

After three grueling years of feeling lost and worthless, I reached a pivotal breaking point. Gazing at my unrecognisable reflection, tears fell, marking a transformative turning point. From that moment, I made a resolute decision to rebuild my life. I regained my strength, becoming super fit, energised, and brimming with vitality.

Launching and currently running a highly successful coaching and property mentoring business, I found purpose in helping others achieve their dreams. Supported by a wonderful, successful partner, I also became an author, capturing my experiences in a book entitled “3 Wines In”.

Today, I have the privilege of taking the stage worldwide, speaking to thousands of women who ignite with inner strength as they embark on their own rediscovery journeys. My mission is to inspire others and be a beacon of hope, reminding them that they too can triumph over adversity.

Have you lost confidence?

Because you sacrificed your career to have a baby and now feel adrift or unfulfilled?

Are you struggling to recognise the person in the mirror due to a few extra kilos you’ve gained?

Have you prioritised everyone else’s needs above your own, leaving you feeling unworthy?

Or do you simply not feel like yourself and yearn to rediscover the best version of you?

Hilary has been instrumental in helping me to stay motivated when I have felt stuck and an absolute rock in helping me through some genuinely tough spots. I can honestly say that working with Hilary has been one of the best decisions I have made.

As a direct result of the coaching, I am now more confident, have new ideas to market my business, strategies for time management and procrastination overhauls. It has had a big improvement on all areas of life. I highly recommend Hilary.

I am a more confident person. I was in need of a lifeline and Hilary was it. I don’t want to imagine how my life could have turned out without her. An amazing learning experience for me. … you have made it every easy. You are the best life coach ever!!

You impressed me with your passion, integrity, and willingness to help. You have given me courage and a belief in myself. My decision to see you is one of the best decisions I have made for myself- you're an inspiration!

I was personally mentored by Hilary in my leadership role, and I believe that this is what helped me to be the Branch Manager. I would have no hesitation in recommending Hilary and given another opportunity, would love to work with her again in the future.

Her professionalism also shows through her organisation and the way that she is involved 100% throughout the Coaching. Hilary helped me greatly and changed my life. Thank you so much.

Working with Hilary has given me great inspiration and motivation to keep progressing my business. I really appreciate everything you have done for us and everyone that you help, you are a super star!!

I was a little stuck, so I decided to use Hilary as my coach. I’m so glad I did as together we worked through some of the issues holding me back. The coaching had immediate results. Thanks so much Hilary for working with me and delivering results!

Hilary's difference, and highest qualities are that she can deliver the message and with her authenticity and warmth to those around her, she can achieve success, very few could even ponder. Easily the best motivator I have ever seen.

I now recommend HIlary to anyone. I feel I have become a lot more aware of committing to what I say I will do. She provides simple ideas to achieve your goals and gives you the encouragement to do it.

I first met Hilary at one of her powerful speaking events. She really pressed my button for action, through her down to earth, realistic motivational message. I worked with Hilary and have to say it was an excellent investment. Thank you so much Hilary.

I couldn’t recommend Hilary more highly. Her generosity and expertise helped me gain clarity when I was feeling lost. Her sharp expertise and perspicacity helped me overcome blockers. Truly a unique business coach with a do-er attitude that would inspire anyone.

Hilary is fantastic at empowering you to realise your path. In short Hilary is amazing and I would recommend her to anyone unsure about their next major life choice.

I have seen Hilary on stage several times and she has a unique ability to deliver a powerful message in an inspirational way. Her infectious personality never lacks authenticity and her humour ensures the audience is engaged and fully energised.

If you're someone who is unsure of your next move and has a lot of passion then Hilary is fantastic at empowering you to realise the path you should take on your journey. Being able to express the challenges in the way of my dream job allowed Hilary to help me realise that I had a very straightforward plan of action.

Igniting the Spark to Live Your Best Life

Welcome to a world where coffee’s aroma and home truths awaken you to your best life! My mission is to inspire and empower you to unlock your potential through real, transparent, and approachable methods. With honesty and humor, I create an open space for growth.

Whether you’ve faced challenges or are navigating them now, remember your innate strength can propel you beyond expectations. Life’s too precious to hide; embrace experiences and shape the life you desire. It starts with a choice, self-belief, and action, leading to unimaginable heights.

You’re not alone. Together, we’ll build a community fueled by laughter, growth, and fulfillment. Join me on this adventure, and let’s bounce back better than ever before!

Get A Copy Of Her Latest Book

3 Wines In

Thoughts and emotions are the precursors to actions, and once you learn to change them for the better, your ability to act is suddenly unshackled. Throw away the ball and chain that holds you back and learn to grow your confidence daily.

Written for all women with the motto “It doesn’t matter where you are now, what matters is where you want to go.” 3 Wines In will have you laughing, crying, gasping and realising that you are not alone…

We Should Connect

Over Coffee, or wine.

I’m here to help people find their answers to their doubts and overcome their challenges that might be keeping them from becoming the best version of themselves. Let’s chat about how I could help you or inspire the people at your next event.